Dear Franco Seduction’s Friends,

I am happy to announce that there are big changes in Franco Seduction’s consultations.

Have you every felt you would like to have a helping hand? Someone who is
close to you and guides you towards better success?

I was very lucky when I was a young man.

I was living in a small touristic place full of wonderful female tourists of all nationalities and… full of guys with a very good natural game.

I was one of them myself still the fact that one of the older natural players took the time when I was young to share with me his knowledge was a real fortune to me.

It was crucial for my growth as PUA and Seducer.

I am proud to announce that Finnish Playboy is going to give his contribute
to Franco Seduction and start his consultations today.

Finnish Playboy has an extensive experience in all the fields of Pick-up and
Seduction.

His specialty is to Pick-up women from bars and clubs night time.

I do not like to stay awake late at night. That is a killer for my writing but he does!

So I have to give him the keys of my apartment: he goes out to hunt and I go to sleep. That is Finnish Playboy’s way!

He has an extensive knowledge of all the topics connected with being a PUA
and has been very often my wing.

Franco Seduction´s consultations are done in a very professional way and are directed to help 3 groups of men:

Single men
Husbands
Playboys

As a Single man you might be interested in Franco Seduction’s consultations in the following cases:

- You have difficulties in finding a girlfriend or building any kind of relationships with women and you need to improve your seductive skills and understanding of female psyche.

- You have difficulties in coping with the life as single, maybe you are
divorced, your girlfriend left you and you feel that you have to improve your game and reduce your neediness.

- You want to remain single for a while and feel you are being sucked into
female game and have difficulties in keeping that frame.

- You want to improve your inner game and inner state control.

- Any kind of issues connected with having a higher level quality life as a single individual.

- We can also help you if you are having problems with your former girlfriend of wife: we teach you how to get the upper hand just in case “equal rights” is not working well for you.

As a Husband you might be interested in Franco Seduction’s consultations for the following reasons:

- You love your wife and want to keep her attraction and sexual desire
indefinitely up. Franco Seduction is first class quality in this field. I can help you in doing that.

- You are having marital problems and are willing to solve them without
having to give up your sexual life.

- You have been betaised (= emasculated) in the relationship and want my
help to get out of there. We can do that for you. It will be tough but we will
get you out of there.

- Your wife cheats on you and you don´t know what to do.

- Your wife treats you in a non respectful way and you want to know how to
deal with it.

- You are having legal litigations with your wife and want to know about the
right psychological approach to deal with her. We can help you in regard to
that. (For the legal part you will have to consult a lawyer.)

- Problems in the relationship between you, your wife and the children: how
to deal with it like a man without getting into the nice guy role while still
helping your family.

Everything is always a process

- Every consultation is a process. Franco Seduction´s consultations are very
close to magic but they are not like God. Well close to it but not exactly. If you are having problems in your sexual life or are willing to improve yourself in some area almost probably you are in the middle of a process: a single
consultation can do a lot of good but in most of the cases we will have to
follow your process.

- So to be effective consultations almost always deal with your process and
have so to be structured.

Structure of the consultation:

When you have agreed about a consultation for it to be effective at the
maximum you should send Finnish Playboy an email containing the following information:

- Nature of the issue you want to consult me for.
- Which is your goal.
- Information about the person/persons involved (No real names! use
nicknames. )
- You should give as much information as possible about her background
especially about her parents, her former relationships, the way she relates
to you, does she test you, when and how, nature of her tests.

When Finnish Playboy has received your email he will go through it and then you are ready for the first consultation.

I suggest very much the use of Skype. If you do not feel comfortable with Skype you can call him by phone.

- If your problem can be solved with one consultations that´s fine. In most
of the cases the situation will be that you are part of a process with a long
history behind so we will need follow-up sessions.

- Finnish Playboy will give you tasks to perform between the sessions.

- He will check regularly your progress.

You can contact Finnish Playboy directly at: finnish-playboy@francoseduction.com

And now let me have at the same time have the pleasure of informing you that we have announced a few weeks ago with Joseph Went South and David Clare the publication of our new book about female psychology:

The Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man.

In the book there is extensive information about female psychology and behavior from the point of view of the man.

This is the first book about female psychology written by men!

Some information about the book here:

http://www.lulu.com/content/2599033

My Manual of Seduction for Husbands, Single Men and Players will be a wonderful textbook for Finnish Playboy´s consultations.

You can purchase the Manual from:

https://www.plimus.com/jsp/buynow.jsp?contractId=1719062&currency=EUR&referrer=

More about my Manual of Seduction on Franco Seduction at:

http://francoseduction.com/?page_id=2

In the case you would like to receive my free newsletter regularly and did not apply for it yet you can do so from this link:

http://www.francoseduction.com/listmailfranco/?p=subscribe

I am going to write a lot of new stuff about pick-up, seduction and female relationships in the next months and post it to the readers of my newsletter.

Always offering the best services in Pick-up, Seduction and Female Relationships!

Cheers, Franco
pick-up and seduction school
http://www.francoseduction.com

I am honored to announce that the new book Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man is officially available for purchase!

This book deletes definitely the belief that women cannot be understood by men.

When in August 2006 David Clare, Joseph Went South and I became friends the idea of writing a book about female psychology came out as very, very natural.

We knew we all had loved women for all our life with all our heart and passion! It was so easy to write about the wonderful human beings we loved so much!

Our common passion for women unified us and brought us together as friends and business partners.

We created a strategic alliance – Real Modern Man – with the purpose of improving the quality of life of men in modern age. This book is one of our first steps towards that goal.

We all agreed on one point from the beginning: women can be understood.

It seemed clear to us that femininity follows precise natural laws and that those natural laws can be detected and put into a well organized and structured context.

In the book extensive content about how to succeed with women, attract women, women body language.

We finally brought to you the Yin structured into the Yang context. The secret desire of every man.

It seemed very clear to us when we met each other that men can learn to understand those natural laws behind feminine behavior.

They can become able to make women – and themselves happy and fulfilled!

So we did it: we wrote the first extensive Manual written by men to other men about femininity. After reading this book how to get a girlfriend will not be anymore an issue for you. It will be a fun and pleasurable experience.

The writing of this book has a been a wonderful intellectual experience and an exciting adventure in the world of the woman.

While we were doing the research necessary to write the book we were astonished to find out how little has been written about female psychology from the point of view of the man.

The subject was clearly before this book a taboo.

So this book we wrote is a Revolution: it brings to modern men a deep knowledge of the female world and the tools necessary to make their women happy.

It increases the quality of life of men and women by putting men in the condition of moving freely and happily in the field of love and female relationships.

Female behavior can be described and predicted.

With mathematical precision!

Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man is a unique examination of women and relationships in an era of material equality between the sexes. Despite vast gains in the welfare of women, especially in the modern West, both men and women are finding relationships ranging from dating to marriage increasingly difficult. The authors draw upon cutting edge science in evolutionary biology, and neuropsychology, and vast personal experience with women to distill some simple and practical principles men will find useful for creating and maintaining relationships with emotionally (and sexually) compatible women.

PRACTICAL FEMALE PSYCHOLOGY FOR THE PRACTICAL MAN… GET YOUR COPY TODAY

Guys,

women use largely Double Standards to gain power over men in relationships.

If you aspire to be an experienced PUA and very effective in Sarging and Seduction you need to know very well what are Double Standards.

You need to know how to reframe them.

A Double Standard very commonly used by women is to evaluate a man´s and a woman´s wild sexual desire and behavior in a totally different way.

Somehow women have succeeded in this propaganda so well that many men actually believe it.

The end of exclusive relationships and the evaluation and outcome of open relationships is still evaluated very much on the basis of this Double Standard which is very unfair to men.

The Double Standard is:

- If A man wants sex or has sex outside the main relationship that happens because he is a “male chauvinist pig”, because he has “no idea of what is a human love relationship is” or because he is “unable to understand what is a deeper connection with a woman” or because he “was unable to satisfy her emotionally and sexually in the relationship.”

- If the woman is the one who wants to end an exclusive relationship and have sex around or if she is the one towant more than one sexual relationship at once that happens because “She is not satisfied in the actual relationship” or because “Her man does not connect enough with her” or because “She is treated so badly in the actual relationship and looses control” or because “She found someone else who connects with her better.”

The nastiest thing in this Double Standard is that men are pictured in it as animalistic creatures unable to have a deeper connection with another human being and women are pictured like angelic creatures who connect deeply with everyone.

A corollary of it is that if a man is having sex and getting pleasure out of it he is viewed as “a wild animal who is not able to connect emotionally” and if a woman is having sex and getting pleasure out of it she is viewed as an “angelic creature who is connecting with another human being.”

In reality both are having: great sex.

The Double Standard is connected with the attempt to demonstrate that if men have wild sex they do that because they are not good in connecting with women and satisfying them.

Again if women have wild sex they do that because they are in a way or another “victims” or “not understood in the relationship” and on the way to “find their true self.”

The best way to reframe this Double Standard is not the political one.

There is no point in going to social and political forums debating “why” women have different rights than men for what free sex is concerned.

It also gets you into arguing which is a very weak, beta position to be in.

Instead do like Franco: don´t explicate. Demonstrate.

We men need to reach a place of spiritual growth where we stop asking forgiveness for having a penis while starting to demand more and more care from females of our emotional and physical needs.

Sexual exclusivity should not be granted to our girls by default, it should be a gift we give to them when we are emotionally and physically understood. When we feel that they are able to connect with us.

You can reframe this Double Standard by simply becoming more demanding yourself and willing to be treated very well by women.

Then you can turn the Double Standard around: by linking your sexual desire for her to the way you are treated by her in the relationship.

You can start to feel that you “Are not in the mood for sex and exclusivity if you are not treated well.”

You can start to feel that she is “Not communicating with you on a deeper level.”

If you are not being exclusive it is because she is not satisfying you in the relationship and not connecting with you enough.

This is actually true: for example, if she is blaming you all the time and you are being made feel guilty about everything how can you feel sexual desire for her and be connected with her?

Tell her this!

If she tries to betaise you by blaming you all the time about everything you do instead of getting angry, shout and loose control just keep your cool and say:

Franco:”I feel that I am not treated fairly in this relationship. I am always made feel guilty by you. This does not do good to my sexual desire towards you.. You don´t appreciate me.. I feel I am connecting much more with this girl who is on my work place.. she is trying to understand me and how I feel much better.. maybe I am falling in love for her.”

If she is breaking your head and balls with a never ending dramatic talk and expressing all the time in her talks narcissistic concern about “how she feels” instead of showing empathy for you then instead of becoming aggressive and shouting to her tell her this:

Franco: “You talk so much all the time.. you should touch me more. I feel loved when I am touched.. I am not sure if I can be exclusive in this relationship.. I am not understood and loved.. “

Or you say:

Franco: “You talk all the time about yourself and how you feel.. that is such a turn off. I don´t feel connected in this relationship..There is this girl I met last week. When I talk to her I feel such an intense sense of connection.. “

And then blame her for almost forcing you to have sex with other women.

This is what I call a “total reframe”.

Of course to be able to reframe like this you need to be very good in Sarging and Seduction otherwise your evolutionary value will be below hers and you will be slave of the Circle of Luck.

You can do become a good Pick-up Artist and Seducer by purchasing my Manual of Seduction from this page.

Special time limited offer: those who purchase my Manual of Seduction before 15.7 get 3 free consultations with Franco by email !

Cheers, Franco

Real Modern Man - Boot
camp, Helsinki June, 7-8

Program of the boot camp

June 7

Breakfast 10 - 11.00

Welcome to students

Body language drills I 11.00 - 12.00

Lunch 12.00 - 13.00

Approaching &
Body language I 13.00 - 14.00

Approach anxiety
Dealing with approach anxiety
Pre-approaching
The approach
Transitioning
The “close”

Approaching and body language II 14.00 - 15.00

Observing body language
Your body language
Building attraction
Several ways for different women
Calibrating while approaching
Screening while approaching

Body language drills II 15.00 - 17.00

Relationships 17.00 - 18.00

Relationships and modern man
Female attraction: process of betaising
Stage I of betaising: tests
Stage II of betaising: “Open up to me”
You don´t open up: next the bad ones
Male leadership. The Prince

EFAs 18.00 - 19.00

Early stage: her frames.
Screening her fast early on
Her past history
Early frame announcement
How to detect EFAs

Work groups. Discussion. 19.00 - 21.00

Free discussion about:

- Approaching
- Pick-up and
seduction

June 8

Breakfast 10.00 - 11.00

Field work demonstration 11.00 - 16.00

Lunch 16.00 - 17.00

Relationships and Male leadership 17.00 - 18.00

Lover Provider edge
Your role
Male leadership and attraction
Social proof
Male container function
Exclusive and open relationships

Relationships: female language 18.00 - 19.00

Male and female language
What is a rich description
Rich descriptions and sexual desire
Should you become a girl?
Should you be only masculine?
Frame control and female language

Work groups: relationship cases 19.00 - 21.00

Free discussion about:

- Relationship cases.
- Keeping female sexual attraction on in relationships.

In the evenings: More field work at will winging with Franco &
Joseph.

Franco and Joseph announce next bootcamps.

At the bootcamp the new book “Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man” by David Clare,
Joseph Went South and Franco presented.

Franco Seduction is very pleased to announce Real Modern Man’s first ever bootcamp, which will take place in Helsinki, Finland on June 7-8, 2008. The bootcamp will be held in collaboration between Franco Seduction and Joseph Went South.

Real Modern Man is a strategic alliance between Franco´s Franco Seduction, Joseph W. South and David Clare with the purpose of supporting modern men´s self-improvement in all the areas of their life.

In the course of the bootcamp Franco Seduction will offer both theoretical and in-field practical coaching in the area of Pick-up, Seduction & Female Relationships.

We’ll be posting more details on the bootcamp here throughout the day. The cost of the camp is 2500 Euro and will include your food and drink throughout the day.

We will only be having a limited number of students and we’ve already got students signed up, so hurry before space runs out. Because of the travel distance, it is rare that Joseph and I will be doing these together.

You have the option to pay in full or in four monthly installments, starting with an initial deposit of 1000 Euro. Click on one of the following links to register for the 7-8 June Helsinki bootcamp with Franco and Joseph W. South:

To pay in full

To pay in four installments

Guys,

I have abandoned the use of the “Ho” term for being too judgmental. Synonymous of “Ho” will be Materialista.

It better indicates the game of this kind of woman without being so judgmental.

Here I am going to describe the core of the Materialista´s game.

In further writings I am going to describe techniques to put this kind of woman under your spell.

So stay tuned with Franco Seduction.

This kind of woman games men with the purpose of getting material possessions out of them.

Plain simple: money, gifts, houses, cars, material possessions of any kind.

There is a big difference between the classic prostitute and the Materialista. This difference is:

The classic prostitute is an amateur, almost AFC, compared to what a real Materialista can do.

The classic prostitute gives you sex and gets out of the deal with something like 300 - 400 dollars when she is AFC. Prostitutes with better game may get out of the game with 5000 dollars or more and have fun with you for a weekend.

Still they are not the ones with the real game.

The Materialista is the one with the real game: she is the one who literally first puts you to work for her and after gets out of the relationship with half of your property just to get to the next guy.

This is all phenomenology: nothing judgmental about it. As you will see from this article when this happens to you, you are basically the one to give her the chance of doing it.

Stage 1. She gets under your radar ( assuming that you have one

When you meet this kind of woman for the first time she seems “different” from the others you met before.

She never looses control like the others you met before, she gives you very little drama or not drama at all, she behaves friendly and quite feminine.

She dresses well, she behaves well and your first impression could be at the beginning: “Wow, I met a wonderful woman !”

The first thing which should have the alarm bell sound in your mind is: she does not seem to shit test you at all! So when you meet her you might be prone to think or feel: “I just adore this woman, she is something special”.

In reality she does not shit test you because her purposes is not to get pregnant to you - desire for child is one of the main unconscious reasons women shit test men for - it is to get under your radar.

So at first you will feel like you found a wonderful companion who gives you wonderful sex and understands fully your masculine world.

She behaves logically, does not give you bullshit, drama, she behaves feminine, flirts with you and makes you feel yourself a hero.

If you do not have enough game when this woman will come to you she will succeed totally to come under your radar.

Especially if you are a nice guy you will start to feel.. “I am going to do whatever I can for this woman! She is so good to me!”

Some of them behave in this stage like a little girl who is happy of being with her Daddy. It feels so good!

Stage 2. The small requests.

When she is sure that she got under your radar she will start to test you with small requests.

For example you are in a restaurant and she will ask with a smile can she order this meal which is “little bit more of value” than the others.

In a shop with you she will suddenly get to a more expensive clothe, smile like a little girl and say: “Wow, this is wonderful! How do you think this would fit on me?”

At this stage the most AFC of you will be already done. You will start to buy her more expensive stuff.

If you are an average guy with an average income you will feel a strange feeling of uneasiness in your stomach when you will buy her stuff but you will buy anyway.

What would happen to your relationship if you would “disappoint” her? After all she is being so good to you.

If you are a wealthy guy you will not notice anything at this stage. After all those are still cheap requests to you..

Stage 3. Setting herself as the Prize.

When she is sure she got you to work for her she will start the operation “I set myself as the Prize now”.

Other women do that operation from the beginning. The Materialista first gets under your radar and when she is close to you and has you doing things for her she starts the operation “I am the Prize”.

At this point she will start to tell you strange things..

- What her girlfriends think of you.
- She starts to be less secretive about how other guys like her
- Her “evenings out with girls” will start and increase
- Telling you stories about the great guys she had in the past

And especially:

- Telling you stories about how much money other guys have.

She makes sure that those are guys who potentially have more money than what you have.

For example: if you can afford a Ferrari she will tell you stories about guys she knows who own a yacht.

Stage 4. She qualifies you on material things.

Now this woman who usually is a real disaster herself in managing material things will start the operation: “Qualify him on his possessions”.

This usually will be the deadly hit for you if you got into your game badly.

She will - in a way or another - start to sub-communicate to you that you “should do more for her”.

In the precedent period she has made sure to manipulate you mentally into the state of: “What will happen to our relationship if I only own a Ferrari and the guy she is seeing at the bar owns a yacht?”

When you are in that mental state she will start to ask from you quite directly why you do not own a yacht.

Stage 4. You are betaised.

At this point, unless you are a master pimp like I am - with the side note that I do not use that to take money out of women but I would have the skill of doing it, yes - you will surrender and you will star to qualify yourself to her.

You will start to explain to her “why” you do not have the yacht and give her reasons like: “My company did not make so much money this year” or “we had a lot of expenses, we need to save” or other shit like this.

When you do this she knows she has you.

Stage 5. Getting power over your possessions.

At this point you will feel that strange sensation in your stomach again, much more. You will not be able to defend yourself because you will have in your mind again that “guy with the yacht” she is seeing at the bar or what her girlfriend told her about the “other guy who runs half of Microsoft and has that private jet” and so on.

This kind of woman can use also Players to achieve her purposes. She can tell you how sexy and masculine is the guy you saw last time you were together traveling and so on..

When you start to qualify to her she will use that to put you to work for her. In a word: she will take power over your material possessions.

Stage 6. “I am not happy in this relationship”

At this point one day she will come and tell you.. “We need to talk. I am not happy in this relationship.. ”

This can be everything:

- You do not like the same kind of cats like her
- You do not open up to her enough
- You do not own a yacht or a jet
- Your sexual life with her went down

Whatever.

Next you are betaised and signing a divorce paper which gives her half of your property.

The sex.

In regard to sex there are two types of Materialista.

Type 1, LD Materialista.

She is LD ( low sexual drive ) and does not like sex with you because deep on her heart she feels you are a total looser because you are manipulated by her game.

This first type of Materialista will at the beginning “show” you her legs, rear, sexy clothes and rapidly will loose sexual interest for you.

She will withdraw the sex.

You will beg her for the next 20 years to get it.

Type 2, HD Materialista.

She is HD ( high sexual drive ), she enjoys the sex and wants to have plenty of it.

She will make having sex “easy” for you. So easy that you will believe that you became suddenly the best of all the seducers.

That is not the case: she is having fun while putting her plan into practice.

When she is ready for the last stages she will start to give drama and one day you will find out about her lovers and so on..

Put your energy into business, pick-up and seduction and never enter a relationship where you are being made weaker !

To be able to detect in time a woman who is running the Materialista´s game on you is very important and how to deal with it successfully is an even more important, which I will describe in further posts.

If you are a single man willing to seduce women to get a wonderful girlfriend.

Or a husband willing to make his own wife happy in the relationship.

Or a playboy willing to have a lot of fun.

Purchase my book:” Manual of Seduction for Husbands, Single Men and Players.”

You will find in the book very important information on how to” read” women in the right way with the purpose of seducing them or making them happy in a relationship.

Guys,

woman´s sexuality is essentially - at least on the platonic level - bisexual.

The mismatch created by nature between male and female communication makes for the woman having at least some platonic “lesbian” friendship a matter of psychological survival.

In history men have always practiced war and hunting and left women at home. So guess on which chest they had to cry. A female chest, for sure.

I have been traveling a lot. Interestingly in “politically correct countries” there is an increase in woman´s bisexual tendency. There is also an increased tendency by men to form harems as a reaction to women raising their stakes on the market of love relationships.

Instead when I travel to more traditional countries - between these some country of the former Soviet Union and some Asian country - I meet always women who are genuinely sexually attracted by men and I find that women in those countries have sublimated at the maximum extent their attraction towards the same sex.

It is for me enough to cross the border between Finland where I live and the countries of the Former Soviet Union and I can already sense from the non verbal of women a strong sexual attraction for a man who dresses and behaves like a traditional man. It is hilarious. Here in Finland where I live if I dress and behave by enhancing my masculine secondary traits: beard, body building, traditional business like dressing I score less.

Instead in traditional countries for example Latvia, Estonia, Russia I score with the same traditionally dressing style and masculine attitude much much more. It is like in Finland where I live women just hate the “tough guy style” and it is enough to cross the border to see how ladies become wet for the same tough guy style.

In inverse: by dressing like a “boy” and “rock guy” here in Finland I surely score more and with less game. Again, if I cross the border and dress like a “boy” and a “rock guy” female interest drops down.

I was chatting with a woman from Russia about this change in sexual preferences in Finland. She had an interesting point of view. She said:”They only pretend to not like muscles and beard but actually they do”. LOL.

Would be interesting to hear comments about this by guys from US and Canada or other European countries. I have never been in US and Canada. I do have some friends there and I sense that the picture is the same down there maybe with the exception that women do dress and behave more feminine.

Of course a good game can always fix those mismatches in any country but the phenomenon is quite interesting.

Many women in Western “politically correct countries” have an increasing difficulty in hiding their sexual interest for the same sex. I know only in the town I live more than a woman who has had some sexual contact with a woman, at least occasionally.

For a Seducer being aware of the woman´s tendency to bisexuality is very important. That is a derivate of the huge difference between men and women in regard to communication and of the schizophrenic duality Nature has imposed to women: love a tough man but like feminine verbally rich communication.

The double message in Western countries goes so far that I meet all the time women who innocently believe that a good man could be masculine and think and behave like a woman. LOL. The wisest women anyway stop very early wanting the verbally rich communication from men and invent for themselves… girlfriends.

So a derivate of this is: if in your seductions you end up into a girls´ girl the strategy you should use to seduce her is totally different than if you meet a daddy´s daughter.

Keep this in mind.

Put your energy into business, pick-up, seduction and never enter a relationship where you are being made weaker !

To be able to understand woman´s psychology and the deeply ambivalent nature of her sexuality is a very important skill.

If you are a single man willing to seduce women to get a wonderful girlfriend.

Or a husband willing to make his own wife happy in the relationship.

Or a playboy willing to have a lot of fun.

Purchase my book:” Manual of Seduction for Husbands, Single Men and Players.”

You will find in the book very important information on how to” read” women in the right way with the purpose of seducing them or making them happy in a relationship.

Guys

a “Pivot” is a girl you bring with you when you go out to pick-up girls. This can seem strange but believe me.. it is very powerful.

The most primitive instincts of a woman are programmed to check - between the other things - do other women like you and want to have sex with you before she can feel sexual and emotional interest for you.

In a way when you pick-up women and seduce women being seen with a woman is a subliminal signal to other women that you are the deal.

One cannot understand how powerful this is if he has not tried it personally. I remember how many years ago I had a couple of Greek girl giggle all the evening while hugging and having at my side on of my Pivots.

We had all a lot of fun.. and at the end I collected both girls´ emails. I remember I was quite unsure which one of the two I will choose.. and I endend up choosing both.

A Pivot can be for example a girl you appreciate a lot like a friend, a girl who for a reason or another is resisting you or a girl .. who is looking for a husband..:)

Yes you can do a deal with her: we go out and pick-up together. This can seem strange but go out and try this and you will see how easier it will be to get numbers and email from girls when being with your Pivot.

To be able to understand the use of the Pivot you will need lot of field experience in pick-up and seduction.

If you are a single man willing to seduce women to get a wonderful girlfriend.

Or a husband willing to make his own wife happy in the relationship.

Or a playboy willing to have a lot of fun.

Purchase my book:” Manual of Seduction for Husbands, Single Men and Players.”

You will find in the book very important information on how to” read” women in the right way with the purpose of seducing them or making them happy in a relationship.

Guys,

when you become a PUA and an expert Seducer you will soon notice that asking good things from women will improve your relationship with them much more than giving.

Asking has a magic power: as psychologist Robert Cialdini has pointed out in his writings when a person gives you good things this person is usually prone to backward rationalize “why am I doing this? I must like this person a lot if I do this to him/her!”

Women were born with influence psychology in their blood as they did this for centuries to men long before Cialdini was born.

This is also one important psychological mechanism which makes of men slave to their women, especially when they are in the Provider role.

Many guys ask from themselves: “Why I do this? Why do I give her all while she is being me such a bitch?”.

Well because she is using the power of asking. She simply asks you things and she is making in that way of herself the Prize in your eyes.

You can do the same !

In the field of female relationships you will not be able to appreciate this before you get enough field experience to be able to get yourself enough females and in a relatively short time.

This is because until you are a slave of the “circle of luck” you will be inside your head willing to give, give and give to keep the woman you got just because you got lucky.

Instead experience in Pick-up and Seduction gives you freedom. Even if you are in a loving exclusive relationship or marriage never forget to ask !

You can ask gently or be cocky and funny..

Franco´s “Scratch my back!” is a funny, shortened version for amusing pick-up and seduction situations, not meant to be too serious but it gives very well the idea of what I am talking about.

Be specific when you ask.

For example:

Franco:”I like very much when you look at me with that new make up, I feel you should sit in this position, when you sit in this position I feel even better, ( changes her position ) ah I would love you to shave your intimate parts and grow very long hair, I adore long hair!”

She complains? It is her problem, not ours. She knows you might ask the same things from another woman at need..

Franco:”I like to sit in good bars and restaurant, it is important for me that my woman likes the same. To feel a feeling of friendship and a real connection I need a woman who enjoys being out, meeting people, being social.”

When asking use sub modalities: be specific about color, shape, taste, dimensions, auditive features and so on.

HB:”So what would you like for Christmas?”

Franco.”I have seen a jacket at the male fashion department, it is blue and it is of a soft tissue I adore, it makes me feel so good when I move around, it will fit so nicely with that new clock I bought, the cologne you bought me last time will make of it even more pleasurable to senses..”

When you are richly describing what you like and being specific in asking your woman will feel you are the Prize and will be willing to give all to you ! Then you are getting the power !

The difference between this kind of asking and a needy asking is crucial. You need to be an experienced PUA to do this in the right way otherwise you will get into “needy asking”.

You should ask with the vibe that you deserve being given good things without needing them “particularly” from her.

You need to give the vibe that you are used to receive good things and quite demanding about it. This is mind blowing for the women in your life. In fact.. they do this to men all the time.

Women will get attached to you like mosquitoes on the honey when you will do it to them ! A woman will cherish you and love you to an extreme if you know how to ask things from her.

Put your energy into business, pick-up, seduction and never enter a relationship where you are being made weaker !

To be able to understand the power of asking and how to use it successfully is a very important skill.

If you are a single man willing to seduce women to get a wonderful girlfriend.

Or a husband willing to make his own wife happy in the relationship.

Or a playboy willing to have a lot of fun.

Purchase my book:” Manual of Seduction for Husbands, Single Men and Players.”

You will find in the book very important information on how to” read” women in the right way with the purpose of seducing them or making them happy in a relationship.

Guys,

There has been a lot of discussion about Rapport and it´s importance in Pick-up and Seduction.

In regard to this subject I can only repeat once again that “the map is not the territory” and that “every behaviour has a positive intention behind it”

In a word: there is no final truth.

If our purpose is to have sex with a woman we might very well pick-up and seduce women without bothering too much about Rapport but in my opinion what we will get then will be a lot of sex but also a lot of trouble and LSE women.

In a word: the skill of being in Rapport with another human being is a sign of good psychological healthy in a woman.

Again this is only a belief from my actual map of the world. I have had different maps in the past.

There is a group of woman who has paranoid tendencies i.e. they have a low level of Basic Trust and it is important to detect them early on during pick-up.

So one thing you can do along the sarge is the “Rapport Test”. We could call it also “The Paranoia Test”:)

You quickly detect something which might be of value for the girl and in a really polite way make a neutral comment about it.

For example:

- She has an interesting ear ring and me:

Franco: “I have seen that ear ring before; did you buy it in Egypt?”

- She has black hair:

Franco: “You look little bit Italian, do you have Italian relatives?”

Now this is at the same time a test for Rapport and a pick-up technique.

Your comment is neutral and you are making her self-conscious.

Doing this test requires a lot of skills in fact if an AFC ( Average Frustrated Chump ) does this he will come out as a nice guy. She will consider this simply an IOI from an AFC and laugh to it.

But if you are able to do this in the proper way i.e. in a manly way and with a non verbal of active distinterest you will be at that point able to:

- Make her self conscious which will give you the way for further attraction building and..

- Be able to distinguish between girls with lower self-esteem and paranoid tendencies and more normal girls.

In fact: a woman with a very low basic trust and paranoid tendency will react to this “Mini Call for Rapport” with suspect, when she gets self-conscious she will have a lot of signs of uneasiness in her non verbal and even more important she will not be able to relate to it naturally.

Instead a more normal woman with a good basic trust will be able to get rapport with you and will not be bothered too much - actually she will be pleased - by the fact that you are getting rapport with her for a second.

In this way you will be quickly able to know who is the woman you want seduce and who is the woman you want to be only friends or maybe eject.

This is not in conflict with the attraction game; it gives you quickly a clue of with which woman it is worth to continue the sarge and with whom not.

To be able to understand the level of self-esteem of a girl is a very important skill. When you can do it you are able to know very quickly with whom you want to spend your time with.

If you are a single man willing to seduce women to get a wonderful girlfriend.

Or a husband willing to make his own wife happy in the relationship.

Or a playboy willing to have a lot of fun.

Purchase my book:” Manual of Seduction for Husbands, Single Men and Players.”

You will find in the book very important information on how to” read” women in the right way with the purpose of seducing them or making them happy in a relationship.