As a high status man something you should really know is why to avoid negative people and how.
You as a man have almost probably been educated to be “tough” which is good in situations where you need toughness to cope with difficulties.
On the other hand there are situations where being tough and persistent can really, really harm your interests.
Relationships with negative people are a good example of this: with them the best policy is not toughness, it is retreating.
Why you need to get rid of negative people?
It is because words affect your brain on the longer term.
It is very well known in psychology how rich verbal descriptions affect the brain.
A verbal description of a negative mind status affects through words your brain like a virus: it builds into your mind the same emotions and feelings connected with the negative thinking of the other person.
This is why you need to avoid contact with negative people.
How do you recognize negative people? You can do that by paying attention to their focus and the structure of their speech.
A negative person will have his focus on failure and pain. The content of his thinking will be filled with pain and failure. His/her actions will be directed to achieve pain and failure.
A good and easy way to detect a negative person is to follow how much and how often the negation is present in their speech.
“I do not understand this person”
“I cannot believe this could be true”
“I don´t like this”
“I think I understand the way this person thinks”
“I believe this is for surely true”
“I like very much this”
The focus of a negative person is on what it is not instead of having a focus on what it is or could be better.
When you detect this kind of negative thinking the best thing you can do is to withdraw from the communication with this person.
In a word: leave the person alone. It will not get any better.
Apply this to business relationships, friends and love relationships and you will achieve more energy and happiness in your life!
High Status Man